余生,只求相处不累

  • 2020 年 09 月 21 日
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我常常听人说,要把人生分成两半,前半生,人生是一直在做加法,学习各种技能,参加各种考试,追求一些爱而不得的人,争取一些强人所难的事。

前半生一直在不断追寻,不断把自己的人生变得丰满。为了爱的人,改变原来的自己,为了迁就朋友,勉强自己做原本不那么喜欢做的事情。只为了留住那些自己十分珍视的人,或追求一些满足感,一些成就感,哪怕受伤了,难过了,也觉得,为了爱的人而付出,是值得的。常常到最后,变得疲惫不堪。

而人的后半生,做的是减法,开始接受这个不完美的自己,不开心的事情,就不去想了;还没发生的困难,就不去杞人忧天了,得不到的爱人就放手让他离开吧。

也开始渐渐明白了,这世界上有很多事情,不是努力就会有回报,不是付出就会有收获的。有些渐行渐远的人,也都不会再去死皮赖脸地挽留了,来不及参与自己人生后半段的人,也能学会洒脱祝福了。

余生,还很长,如果一辈子都要不断追逐,不断期待再失望,不断改变着自己去迎合着别人,那这辈子,也活得太累了。余生,我想要的不多,能和我聊得来的人,就一起多说说话,跟我互相看不惯的人,就彼此躲远一点,别给对方添堵。

明明知道注定不属于自己的人,就放手给他幸福吧,还有那些总是一自我为中心,需要自己去迁就的人,也慢慢都远离了。

这辈子几十年,不想每一天都那么累,不想每一天都躲在面具后面,脸上挂着笑,心里却带着泪。后半生,只想安安稳稳,简简单单,只想跟相处不累的人在一起,不必伪装自己,快乐就开心大笑,难过也有个肩膀能让我依靠,哭的时候有人为我擦泪,痛的时候有人给我安慰。

人生在世,简简单单,平平淡淡才是真,追求的再多,死了也什么都带不走。余生,我不求荣华富贵,只求相处不累。


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